Sometimes we ask ourselves, what does love really means, why is there no unconditional love, blablabla. But when I think about this love thingy again, i prefer to say that love, is actually an element built up by another feeling called : confused.

Like for example : i’ve been hanging out with this guy, we’ve been through lots of ups and downs together, i know him well and he knew what type of person i am. Then suddenly, something clicks in both of us and we ask ourselves, ‘Gosh, am i in love with him/her?’ and stuffs like that. And sometimes, we will react so cool, that we tell ourselves, ‘How can i fall in love with him/her, he/she always smack and hit me, if he’s/she’s my boyfriend/girlfriend then i’ll die.. blablablabla’ and then maybe we’ll say : ‘Eh, i think i like him/her la. We’re so close somemore, he’s a nice guy/girl blablablabla, and nothing is impossible right?’ Then both guy and girl will start to feel awkward being together then there goes! They become a couple.

That, is one of the many ways people can get together as a couple, and for me, i think it is the most confortable way since we already knew what type of people our partner was and will be. But what about love at first sight, love starts when people talks gossips, and stuffs like that? Well, i knew about the second one, but i know nothing about love at first sight. Yes, we may tend to like a good looking person but will that feeling stay for long or will it vanished once we found another good looking guy? So it doesn’t really makes sense. I know well about ‘love starts when people talks gossips’ because during my school days, this thing happened like for many times and i think most of the couple case in school are based on it.

However, people will still have their preferences to find their life partner. Like maybe for me, i will prefer a guy who can sing very well because he can sing to me whenever i feel down or something like that. Or maybe some guys will prefer girls who are presentable and pretty so that they can show off or blablabla? Even how the person cares for us, how he/she loves us, we still will stick to our preferences, because it is our preferences? (What the hell! )

Recently, i met this cute guy, (ehem) yea, not too cute but cute, (hahah!) and yes, i admire his cuteness. Well, i don’t like him as in, like him and want him to be partner but damn! He’s cute! Haha! I wanted so much to talk to him and stuff and guess what, i heard him singing also! Danggg~~ But luckily i didn’t talk to him or ask his phone number and stuffs because now i can’t even remember how he looks like. Whatever is it, i know this stupid feeling won’t last long, because i don’t even know him! Hahah~

Honestly for me, i would want to find a guy who can sing really well (like what i said in the previous paragraph) and can speak English and Hokkien very well so that i can communicate with him, and stuffs like that la. So, what about u?